Hiiiiiii.... I haven't been on here since... since... well since I created this blog! Lol
Just wanted to pop in and say hello!
Lots of things has been going on with me this year.. The new year starts tomorrow and I'm gonna try and keep up with updating this blog.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
Like A Boy..
Why is it when men cheat females forgive, but when a female cheats she's a hoe?
Personally I don't think it's okay for either of the sexes to cheat.
Is it that females are more forgiving and try to give their man the benefit of doubt and wanting things to work so badly, hoping he won't do it again. OR she wants the sense of security so she keeps him around. OR is she just straight stupid and just needs to realize there is no excuse for him doing what he did and if she knew any better wouldn't tolerate any bullshxt because he'll just keeping on doing it.
Is it that males are to afraid of embarassment and getting their heart broken that once the female makes a mistake he's not willing to forgive because he knows it's not right. Knowing that another man had whats his won't get out of his head.
Men do it all the time. Go out to a social gathering see another attractive female and can't help themselves but to speak to her. Once exchanging numbers and speaking to her not mentioning their girlfriend or mentioning her goes out and meets this chick and somehow gets it poppin. They manage to do it a few times not getting caught because there's no emotion with the outside chick, but once in a while they will stumble across that one female who isn't gonna play role and wants to be his main so he gets caught. Pleads with his girl that it only happened this one time and he's soooo sorry and wants to make things work. Now the natural emotions of a woman is to be pissed curse him out and leave but after a few days go pass and she calms down thinks about it gets advice from all her friends, lonely nights go pass, she decides to accept the apology not knowing he's gonna continue his bullshxt. WISEN UP!
When the tables turn..oh how it becomes hilarious. Now the female decides to go with her homegirls and go to the club looking all sexy. Gets her eye on this one guy and makes sure he notices her as well, drinks in the system all night, might just end up back at his place.Anyways what happens, happens..whether it being that night or another day. Sadly this club guy knows someone who knows her man and since men love to brag about the pxssy they got from some random girl at a party her man finds out, bursts into flames calling her all sorts of names(i.e. HOE, SLUT, BxTCH).
I just felt like writing this because females are beginning to have that I don't care mentality against relationships. And this "if he could do it so can I" not having any regards to anyone emotions, kind of like a man if you'll say. Now more and more I'm hearing guys call their ex's degrading names because she cheated.
to be continued...
Personally I don't think it's okay for either of the sexes to cheat.
Is it that females are more forgiving and try to give their man the benefit of doubt and wanting things to work so badly, hoping he won't do it again. OR she wants the sense of security so she keeps him around. OR is she just straight stupid and just needs to realize there is no excuse for him doing what he did and if she knew any better wouldn't tolerate any bullshxt because he'll just keeping on doing it.
Is it that males are to afraid of embarassment and getting their heart broken that once the female makes a mistake he's not willing to forgive because he knows it's not right. Knowing that another man had whats his won't get out of his head.
Men do it all the time. Go out to a social gathering see another attractive female and can't help themselves but to speak to her. Once exchanging numbers and speaking to her not mentioning their girlfriend or mentioning her goes out and meets this chick and somehow gets it poppin. They manage to do it a few times not getting caught because there's no emotion with the outside chick, but once in a while they will stumble across that one female who isn't gonna play role and wants to be his main so he gets caught. Pleads with his girl that it only happened this one time and he's soooo sorry and wants to make things work. Now the natural emotions of a woman is to be pissed curse him out and leave but after a few days go pass and she calms down thinks about it gets advice from all her friends, lonely nights go pass, she decides to accept the apology not knowing he's gonna continue his bullshxt. WISEN UP!
When the tables turn..oh how it becomes hilarious. Now the female decides to go with her homegirls and go to the club looking all sexy. Gets her eye on this one guy and makes sure he notices her as well, drinks in the system all night, might just end up back at his place.Anyways what happens, happens..whether it being that night or another day. Sadly this club guy knows someone who knows her man and since men love to brag about the pxssy they got from some random girl at a party her man finds out, bursts into flames calling her all sorts of names(i.e. HOE, SLUT, BxTCH).
I just felt like writing this because females are beginning to have that I don't care mentality against relationships. And this "if he could do it so can I" not having any regards to anyone emotions, kind of like a man if you'll say. Now more and more I'm hearing guys call their ex's degrading names because she cheated.
to be continued...
Monday, February 2, 2009
Can't live with them..Can't live without them!
Why can't a guy just keep it real?
I don't quite know why but my friends always seem to come to me with problems in their "love life" and expect me to have all the answers. I'm just like every other female out there confused trying to figure out the male species. Recently I have came to the conclusion that we will NEVER understand the stuff they do..just like they will never understand us.
Can't live with them and defintely can't live without them!
Okay. So my friend calls me yesterday and tells me that she recently started seeing this guy in December and she really likes him and hopes it could go a little further although she doesn't really wanna push things. She knows he was feeling her just as much as she's feeling him, but she has a dirty little secret. So, I'm like wtf is this secret and proceed to tell her if you feeling him and trying to make it go further you can't keep secrets. She goes "I use ta fxck his friend a couple of months ago"....whoa! Major shocker..lol! I'm like damn, you gotta tell him though I don't know how he gonna take it but atleast you're gonna be honest.
SMH..She goes she didn't even get that far so my advice was useless because this event already happened, his friend got to him before she did and basically made her sound like a slut. She came clean and told her "boo" what it was and he said thats in the past and they'll continue speaking. But now he's acting weird like all he wants to do is come over spend the night, never go out for a movie, dinner, or anything. He picks little arguments for no apparent reason, now she's complete confused if she's getting taken for a ride.
Basically she's asking whats my take on this whole situation. Anddddd my whole take on this situation is WTF, why do guys play such childish games, why cant they just say how the feel instead of leaving us to reck our brains and figure it out!
Honestly, iDK what to tell her. I don't wanna say anything wrong because, he might like her and just be too busy to spend a lot of public time together; and doesn't know how to express his feelings. He wants to be girls come and girls go type of guy when he isn't.
Or! He could have heard what he heard from his friend and now decide to just keep her around because he knows he got her like that and whats to continue their personal time.
What's your take?
I don't quite know why but my friends always seem to come to me with problems in their "love life" and expect me to have all the answers. I'm just like every other female out there confused trying to figure out the male species. Recently I have came to the conclusion that we will NEVER understand the stuff they do..just like they will never understand us.
Can't live with them and defintely can't live without them!
Okay. So my friend calls me yesterday and tells me that she recently started seeing this guy in December and she really likes him and hopes it could go a little further although she doesn't really wanna push things. She knows he was feeling her just as much as she's feeling him, but she has a dirty little secret. So, I'm like wtf is this secret and proceed to tell her if you feeling him and trying to make it go further you can't keep secrets. She goes "I use ta fxck his friend a couple of months ago"....whoa! Major shocker..lol! I'm like damn, you gotta tell him though I don't know how he gonna take it but atleast you're gonna be honest.
SMH..She goes she didn't even get that far so my advice was useless because this event already happened, his friend got to him before she did and basically made her sound like a slut. She came clean and told her "boo" what it was and he said thats in the past and they'll continue speaking. But now he's acting weird like all he wants to do is come over spend the night, never go out for a movie, dinner, or anything. He picks little arguments for no apparent reason, now she's complete confused if she's getting taken for a ride.
Basically she's asking whats my take on this whole situation. Anddddd my whole take on this situation is WTF, why do guys play such childish games, why cant they just say how the feel instead of leaving us to reck our brains and figure it out!
Honestly, iDK what to tell her. I don't wanna say anything wrong because, he might like her and just be too busy to spend a lot of public time together; and doesn't know how to express his feelings. He wants to be girls come and girls go type of guy when he isn't.
Or! He could have heard what he heard from his friend and now decide to just keep her around because he knows he got her like that and whats to continue their personal time.
What's your take?
Sunday, February 1, 2009
25 Random "Dee Factz"
iDK Random things I thought I'd share..
1-- I absolutely CANNOT stand ignorant black people. It is not okay to remain uneducated and act ghetto because of the neighborhood you live in ::yuck::
2-- My favorite is Purple..and it has been Purple since people thought it was the "gay" color.
3-- I love to look pretty but I hate the process of getting my hair done and sitting in the nail salon for 2½ hours.
4-- I hate bad teeth..that's why I've decided to correct my teeth..I have had braces for the last year and a half..lots of people don't know that.
5-- PERSONAL HYGIENE..wtf! Why do people not smell their own disgusting body odors? Personal Hygiene consists on Perspiration, Bad Breathe, and Genital Odors! There should be NO reason I'm smelling something other than pleasant things.
6-- I always choose the wrong guys. No matter how I try and how happy I am for the first month..truth remains he's not the right one. Idk..
7-- I don't wanna get thick! I think when big booty girls get old, their asses will sag and look disgusting. Although I wouldn't mind gaining like 10 or 15lbs I don't wanna get thick!
8-- Only wore weave once! And it was to make my hair shorter not longer..My hair is natural..
9-- Always start a hobby that I never complete. I get bored pretty easy. Danced ballet for 7 years then decided I don't like it anymore. Start cleaning my room and decide I wanna go outside so push everything under my bed. I'll be surprised if I finish writing this..lol
10-- PHARELL is a musical genius. His style rocks! Mixture of Hip-Hop & Rock is oh.em.gee! Can't forget KANYE and JAYZ.
11-- Reality T.V. rocks! I know I should watch more educational things but t.v. is for entertainment. Watching all these rich people who fell off attempt to make a "comeback" by looking for love is hilarious.
12-- I LOVE TATTOOS! My guy has to be tatted up. Right now I only have three, but trust me its only the beginning.
13-- I hate Tomatoes but love Ketchup. I love Oranges but hate Orange Juice. IRONIC?
14-- I believe all guys perform oral sex, no matter how they deny it. If they haven't tried it yet they soon will..its part of sex. And I also think sex is a way to show emotion so by all means everyone should be fucking..lol. Be safe though! Protection is key..no protection equals unwanted pregnancy as well as numerous diseases.
15-- My grandma holds the key to my heart. Seeing her just makes me weak. I love her. She's the sweetest woman I ever met. Incredible strong woman. Took care of all 12 of her children w not one compliant. She out lived everyone in her generation, including her siblings, husbands, and cousins except one.
16-- I love my Trini culture. I play Steel Pan, tenor bass to be exact. I listen to soca music. I absolutely love our food. I put pepper on my food. Lol..and yes I love curry, I'd curry everything if u let me.
17-- Although I know my father, grew up w him in my life and know my siblings on his side and speak to my aunts (etc) I know nothing about his side of the family. I couldn't tell you what my grandparents look like never met them. I need to bridge that gap asap.
18-- I cannot stand deaths. People should live for eternity. No matter how someone pisses me off I don't think it gives me the right to take their life. Maybe hurt them a little but not kill them.
19-- I went completely wild for the past two years, no regrets but now I'm thinking "wtf why'd I do that". I am surely paying for it now, but I'm managing and owning up to my wrongs.
20-- I'm extremely competitive! If I lose it'll be chaos. That's why I choose not to play games a lot..unless its twister. :)
21-- Can't why on earth do people name their children something that's so difficult to pronounce or it just sounds like wtf.
22-- Thinks women are the dominant species..we just allow men to think they are. :)
23-- Doesn't understand why older guys always wanna talk to me. And not the cute ones w good jobs but the creepy ones that are like same age of my father. Like wtf I look like I'm about 14, there's too many pervs walking the streets of nyc.
24-- Consider myself to be something like a socialite. I party and attend all different types of events all week long. Sleep has to fit into my hectic schedule. Lol
25-- I don't believe in Valentines Day. To express your love shouldn't be confined one day a year annually. It just doesn't make much sense to me. Only on February 14th can you do something nice for your significant other? Smh..
26-- This one is for good luck..lolRUMORS? Why? I can't stand 'em! People should just live their own lives and stop talking about everyone elses. Its becoming annoying now hearing about things I've done and said from someone especially when it has not facts behind and it no where near true.
1-- I absolutely CANNOT stand ignorant black people. It is not okay to remain uneducated and act ghetto because of the neighborhood you live in ::yuck::
2-- My favorite is Purple..and it has been Purple since people thought it was the "gay" color.
3-- I love to look pretty but I hate the process of getting my hair done and sitting in the nail salon for 2½ hours.
4-- I hate bad teeth..that's why I've decided to correct my teeth..I have had braces for the last year and a half..lots of people don't know that.
5-- PERSONAL HYGIENE..wtf! Why do people not smell their own disgusting body odors? Personal Hygiene consists on Perspiration, Bad Breathe, and Genital Odors! There should be NO reason I'm smelling something other than pleasant things.
6-- I always choose the wrong guys. No matter how I try and how happy I am for the first month..truth remains he's not the right one. Idk..
7-- I don't wanna get thick! I think when big booty girls get old, their asses will sag and look disgusting. Although I wouldn't mind gaining like 10 or 15lbs I don't wanna get thick!
8-- Only wore weave once! And it was to make my hair shorter not longer..My hair is natural..
9-- Always start a hobby that I never complete. I get bored pretty easy. Danced ballet for 7 years then decided I don't like it anymore. Start cleaning my room and decide I wanna go outside so push everything under my bed. I'll be surprised if I finish writing this..lol
10-- PHARELL is a musical genius. His style rocks! Mixture of Hip-Hop & Rock is oh.em.gee! Can't forget KANYE and JAYZ.
11-- Reality T.V. rocks! I know I should watch more educational things but t.v. is for entertainment. Watching all these rich people who fell off attempt to make a "comeback" by looking for love is hilarious.
12-- I LOVE TATTOOS! My guy has to be tatted up. Right now I only have three, but trust me its only the beginning.
13-- I hate Tomatoes but love Ketchup. I love Oranges but hate Orange Juice. IRONIC?
14-- I believe all guys perform oral sex, no matter how they deny it. If they haven't tried it yet they soon will..its part of sex. And I also think sex is a way to show emotion so by all means everyone should be fucking..lol. Be safe though! Protection is key..no protection equals unwanted pregnancy as well as numerous diseases.
15-- My grandma holds the key to my heart. Seeing her just makes me weak. I love her. She's the sweetest woman I ever met. Incredible strong woman. Took care of all 12 of her children w not one compliant. She out lived everyone in her generation, including her siblings, husbands, and cousins except one.
16-- I love my Trini culture. I play Steel Pan, tenor bass to be exact. I listen to soca music. I absolutely love our food. I put pepper on my food. Lol..and yes I love curry, I'd curry everything if u let me.
17-- Although I know my father, grew up w him in my life and know my siblings on his side and speak to my aunts (etc) I know nothing about his side of the family. I couldn't tell you what my grandparents look like never met them. I need to bridge that gap asap.
18-- I cannot stand deaths. People should live for eternity. No matter how someone pisses me off I don't think it gives me the right to take their life. Maybe hurt them a little but not kill them.
19-- I went completely wild for the past two years, no regrets but now I'm thinking "wtf why'd I do that". I am surely paying for it now, but I'm managing and owning up to my wrongs.
20-- I'm extremely competitive! If I lose it'll be chaos. That's why I choose not to play games a lot..unless its twister. :)
21-- Can't why on earth do people name their children something that's so difficult to pronounce or it just sounds like wtf.
22-- Thinks women are the dominant species..we just allow men to think they are. :)
23-- Doesn't understand why older guys always wanna talk to me. And not the cute ones w good jobs but the creepy ones that are like same age of my father. Like wtf I look like I'm about 14, there's too many pervs walking the streets of nyc.
24-- Consider myself to be something like a socialite. I party and attend all different types of events all week long. Sleep has to fit into my hectic schedule. Lol
25-- I don't believe in Valentines Day. To express your love shouldn't be confined one day a year annually. It just doesn't make much sense to me. Only on February 14th can you do something nice for your significant other? Smh..
26-- This one is for good luck..lolRUMORS? Why? I can't stand 'em! People should just live their own lives and stop talking about everyone elses. Its becoming annoying now hearing about things I've done and said from someone especially when it has not facts behind and it no where near true.
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